Why do men have affairs?

　　Why do men have affairs?

　　Men cheat for sex, women cheat for love； A man's affair saves both money and effort, while a woman's affair saves both money and effort. ； A man's affair only lasts for a few dozen glorious seconds, but a woman's affair can last a whole night with her arms around her. I believe many women want to know why men have affairs? Seeking excitement? Or true love? But the chance of the latter should be very small. Cheating rarely leads to true feelings. So what does a man “steal” in an affair?

 　　Men cheat for sex?

　　It is always said that men are rational animals, but it is impossible for men who have an affair to be rational. The reason why I say this is because he was irrational from the very beginning of the affair. Just think about it, most men have affairs for sex, right? But in today's society, sex is such a simple thing. Why do we have to go in circles and bypass "love" to play with "sex"? Isn't this just irrational nonsense? Of course, I am not saying this to encourage men to be ruthless sex seekers, nor to tell them to abandon marriage and family and become smelly flies everywhere. The reason why I say this is to take a step back and conduct some necessary rational analysis on men based on the fact that they value sex. The result is that they are not rational at all. Perhaps, this is the excitement they are pursuing, but irrational stimulation is such a huge self-deprecation! In fact, when it comes to playing with emotions, how many men can play better than women?

　　Do men have affairs just for excitement?

　　Of course, more men come out to have affairs just for the sake of sex. Day after day, facing the same woman all day long, just like holding the left hand with the right hand, without feeling at all, is called aesthetic fatigue. So men with a little bit of qualifications and courage wanted to go outside for a change of taste. The taste changed, but their tempers got used to it, and they became more and more courageous. They changed from underground to upright, and even thought of ways to turn illegal into legal.

　　If it's easy to do it legally, then you have to take out all the money you've saved over the years and years of hard work. If it's almost impossible to get enough, then go borrow it and spend the rest of your life doing the hard work. Of course, there are also people who don’t want to legalize it, so prepare to live a hard life. Don’t dare to leave your cell phone all day long. When the phone rings at home, you will immediately nerve It’s stressful, and you have to work overtime constantly on weekends. After working overtime, you have to make up lies to appease your family, and then in a few days you have to make up more lies to cover up that lie. In the end, you don’t even dare to say a word, because you are really afraid that your previous lies will be revealed as soon as you speak... Do you think, if things go on like this, this is still the way people live?

　　Does a man have an affair to save his face?

　　I have a friend who told me frankly: “I look for women outside for nothing but to save face. Why can other men find three or five women outside, but I can't find any? A man lives for a hundred years, and a man comes to this world once. If he doesn't play with a few more women, wouldn't he feel sorry for the outfit his parents gave him? ”In fact, no matter how I listened to it, I always found what my friend said to be a bit funny. The more I felt that what he said was true, the more I wanted to laugh. Man, you always have face when you open your eyes or close your eyes, but you have suffered a lifetime of punishment just for the sake of face. Even on the issue of cheating between men and women, they still compete for face, which cannot but be said to be a great sadness.