What kind of silly girl is a man’s favorite?

　　Do men really like silly girls? Should they ask men to tell them themselves?

　　Silly vs empathetic

　　I met Mr. Z online. He has always paid close attention to the studio I opened and sometimes gave me some suggestions. When I brought up the subject, he told his story.

　　I divide girls into three types: one is really stupid, with low IQ and EQ, and men don't like them; the second type is smart girls; I like the third type, they are smart but often pretend to be stupid. Men all have self-esteem, and a girl who plays dumb can take care of this characteristic everywhere. When a man satisfies his self-esteem, he will love this girl very much when he looks back. Men are prone to making small mistakes, and a girl who plays dumb will make big things into small things and trivial things into nothing with a tolerant attitude. Men who make mistakes will be grateful to her.

　　I like to chat in a vast world. At class reunions, I am always the protagonist. My friends praise me for being well-informed. My girlfriend Ke Ying, who is a doctor, often looks at me with approval. But sometimes, after a party, I would receive a "prescription" from her. Those notes were either hidden in my pocket or tucked into a book. The words on them gently corrected some of my statements - I naturally appreciated her pretending to be stupid at the time and her reminder afterwards.

　　What touched me the most was that she actually used the method of pretending to be stupid to forgive me for the emotional harm I had done to her. Keying and I have been in love for more than a year and are planning to buy a house and get married. But at this moment, my beautiful girlfriend Jiali, who had been in love with me for three years but had ruthlessly abandoned me, suddenly came to see me. I originally thought that I had been bathed in Keying's sunshine love, and there would be no more ripples in my heart. But maybe, it was because I had loved her deeply and tried to keep her again and again; maybe it was the self-esteem and vanity hidden in a man's subconscious that made me always look forward to the moment of saving face. I was flattered and overwhelmed by Carrie's reappearance. I frequently went to her appointments and used excuses like working overtime to excuse Keying. The most crazy thing was that I actually agreed to her request to travel to Hainan together. That day, I told Keying that I was going on a business trip tomorrow. In the past, whenever she was free, she would always go to the airport to see me off, but because I had a "ghost" in my heart, I tried every means to convince her not to see me off the next day.……

　　The scenery in Hainan is very charming, but I have no intention of enjoying it. The man who once promised to take Carrie abroad has not been heard from since he went to the United States; but now, Carrie actually regards me as a life-saving straw, insisting that I apply for Canadian skilled immigration, and talking to himself about our future plans. Because I love her, I used to be used to her willfulness and selfishness, but with the understanding of Ke Ying as a comparison, I feel very uncomfortable now, and I begin to regret it.

　　I didn't dare to call Keying, so I dialed the number at my home. My mother told me that my father had been feeling unwell for the past few days, but Keying was so nice that she came to give him an infusion again. My mother asked me: "Are you bullying Keying? Yesterday I asked casually, have I received a call from you? She Eye It was red, but she insisted that her eyes were uncomfortable. She also comforted your father who was lying on the bed and said that she would always take care of him. Son, there are not many girls like this, you have to cherish them!" After hanging up the phone from my mother, I felt extremely sad. At this time, a sudden thought in my mind made me even more sad: It seems that Keying knows all this, she just pretends not to know! That day Jiali came to the company to see me, and all my colleagues saw it; this time I took my leave again, and the sensitive Keying only needed to make a phone call... I didn't dare to think any further, I just felt that I was going to lose Keying.

　　That night, I thought a lot, and I will never forget the gloomy days when Carrie left me. I was extremely decadent at that time, and it was Keying who used every bit of love to soothe my hurt heart... But my current actions hurt her feelings and self-esteem so much! I can't lose her, I want to go back and ask for her forgiveness.

　　On the plane back to Shanghai, I decisively said "No" to all the requests made by Carrie. This was the only time I said "no" since I met her. I knew it was Keying who gave me the courage.

　　At the moment of reunion, Keying held back her tears and pretended to be happy, which made me feel heartbroken. I understood her thoughts and didn't explain anything. I just held her tightly in my arms with gratitude.