Getting angry is a kind of "crying" in men”

　　Andy Lau sang, "Men can cry, it's not a sin. ”However, few men express and vent their emotions by crying. In fact, getting angry is a kind of "crying" in men. Because many men's depression does not present with common symptoms such as sadness, guilt, and withdrawal, it is ignored.

　　Compared with women, male Patients with depression are more likely to behave recklessly, drink alcohol, take drugs, speed, and like confrontation. Unlike female patients with depression who have excessive self-doubt, they prefer to bully, scare and blame the people around them. For many men, anger is a mask for inner pain and an expression of a desire to be in control rather than controlled. McLean, Boston, USA Hospital William Pollack, a psychologist at the Andrology Center, believes that getting angry is a man's way of crying.

　　For example, there is a very ordinary worker who works very hard and often works overtime. He said that he is very impatient at work and cannot tolerate his colleagues talking about home affairs. Every night, he was drunk. He admitted that he was a very weird person in the eyes of women and friends. He also had stomach pains and a rash. He said it would be embarrassing for a man to act sad. In him, there is no difference between sadness and madness. Modern society believes that tears and laziness are taboos for men. In the eyes of men, depression is equal to vulnerability, shame, and incompetence. This makes a man appear particularly unmanly and equal to losing himself.

　　As a result, some psychologists called for redefining the symptoms of depression and developing a list of depression symptoms specifically for men, such as arrogance and bravado, and the tendency to cry when alone.； Driving too fast and taking unnecessary risks ； When facing a lover, the slightest thing triggers nameless anger, which should be a unique manifestation of a man's depression. Some successful men, such as politicians, sports stars, and corporate CEOs, have openly admitted that they do have this problem.

　　The first thing a man who gets angry easily needs to do is to listen and listen to the reflections of his lover and closest friends. They are often the first to notice your emotional changes. If readers have such men around them, they should also remind them, tell them that depression is an emotion that everyone can have, and urge them to see a doctor.