The perfect woman in the eyes of men

　　1. Tell a man how important he is

　　A man does not refuse to fulfill his obligations to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and his wife without hesitation. On the contrary, if a man is not sure about his family and women's feelings or even has unnecessary worries, he will behave like a scoundrel. When it comes to matters about family and their women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower’s: “The greatest career life can bring to a woman is to be a wife. ”

　　2. Tolerance and truly understand men’s shortcomings and faults

　　Men value their families and women far more than women imagine. They are always accustomed to treating their families and women as a safe haven and comfort zone. So they hope that this place can fully accommodate their successes and failures, and welcome them back with open arms at any time.

　　3. Women must be hygienic and clean.

　　Although they themselves are lazy and dirty, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet and is indifferent to a chaotic home. Because they think that their family and their women are their true faces.

　　4. Give men the title of head of the family

　　Women always like to argue with men about the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence anything. In fact, what men want is just a status. How can they take the initiative to take on the responsibility of buying vegetables and washing dishes if they are so lazy?

　　5. Understand the lonely side of men

　　Psychologically speaking, men are animals that are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men go out for a drink every night or go to a friend's house sleep It's not that they like drinking or being very close to their friends, it's that they're afraid of being alone.

　　So married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel isolated and lonely. So when men lose track of their women or they come home late or even not at all, they become as frightened as a naked nun in a busy city.

　　6. Don’t expect a man’s home to be the same on the outside.

　　Women often complain that men are two different people at home. Why is he always so polite to outsiders, but like a tyrant to me? Why can't he be nice to me too? In fact, women don’t have to worry about this. Because politeness has always been a social need, and being too polite is harmful to the family. When a man behaves very politely to a woman, it only means that he has lost his love for her or has done something sorry for her.

　　7. Don’t confront a man tit for tat when he is angry.

　　The pressure and hardships that men endure in society are something that women cannot experience, and they are likely to take this bad mood home with them. Therefore, men often pick on women for no reason or lose their temper at them. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but they are just venting their frustration. Men need women's understanding and acceptance most, and they need women to pay a very unfair price.

　　8. Men also have jealousy

　　Men are no less jealous than women, and they often fight for their lives. Far more men die under the swords of duels between love rivals than women who are jealous and tear themselves apart. If a woman really loves her man, she should try to understand the man's mentality mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and be careful about the man's suspicion and speculation.

　　9. Don’t talk nonsense at home.

　　Family scandals should not be made public. The right and wrong at home are inherently unclear matters. If gossip from the outside world is added to the mix, a man's self-esteem will completely collapse. At that time, even if a man wants to reconcile, he will be unable to get off. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only option is to discuss it slowly behind closed doors. Because a man’s housekeeping principle is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in internal affairs.

　　10. Don’t compare your man with others

　　In the eyes of men, it is a serious betrayal of a woman to compare her man and family with others. It is impossible for them to understand a woman's original intentions and wishes in good faith, and they will only subjectively think that the woman is picking on them to express their dissatisfaction. They will also ruthlessly think, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?