Why are men so afraid of cuckolding?

　　Reason 1. The extension of virginity complex

　　There are many reasons for this distrust, but collectively there are only a few types:

　　One is due to the "virgin complex". When getting married, the wife is "suspected of being a virgin", or it is very clear that she is not her first lover.；

　　The second is remarried couples, both of whom have a history of marriage and have varying degrees of "re-love experience"”；

　　The third is inferiority complex. In this case, the woman is usually outgoing and has a much more successful career than the man. There is a phenomenon where women are strong and men are weak.；

　　The fourth is hearsay, being troubled by special examples around me, hearing that a certain woman has had such an experience, and being wary of her own people at all times - here, I say, these are not healthy mentality.

　　Reason 2: Insecurity makes men afraid of cuckolding

　　From a psychological point of view, this is the "unrest" hidden in a man's heart. Let's call it "cuckold phobia" in a popular way. This kind of "insecurity" is the fear of something happening to his wife behind her back. Studies have shown that women trust their husbands much more than men trust their wives. This is consistent with real life - men can confidently stay out all night drinking, playing mahjong, and coaxing women away after a few words, but men tend to be suspicious of women.

　　Reason 3: Sexual behavior is exclusive psychology

　　From ancient times to the present, men have always retained the idea that women should stay together forever. But men can have three wives and four concubines. There is such a person in real life male He shows a strong dislike to his wife. Colleagues, classmates, friends and even relatives, as long as he is a man and gets along with him frequently, especially those whom his wife mentions a lot, he will be "blacklisted". Carrying this "blacklist", he will become a "cuckold phobia". He spends time researching and arranging the frequency, place and time of contact between his wife and these "suspicious objects". He is in a state of high alert and vigilance for a long time. He always feels that "something is going on", but he can never catch it.

　　As the saying goes, "A heart ailment needs a heart medicine doctor" and "To untie a bell, it needs a person to tie it." Husband and wife need to strengthen their trust before they can live together.