See if your boyfriend really cares about you?

　　1. Never betray. Don't think that "the red flags at home are not down, but the colorful flags are fluttering outside." Don't treat women as clothes.

　　2. Give her a real sense of security, not necessarily marriage. Rather: whether poor or rich, healthy still disease , love each other and never leave each other until death separates us.

　　3. Don’t always play games or use the computer when you are together. When you are having fun, she may already feel very left out, but you are only paying attention to your computer.

　　4. Women always have their menstrual period for a few days, and they cannot be controlled rationally at that time. No matter how hysterical, unreasonable, or moody she is, you have to coax her and tolerate her. Never show displeasure or impatience.

　　5. When you love a girl, you must remember to always say to her: I love you. No matter how many times you have said it, no matter if it is the hundreds of times she asks you "Do you love me?" When she says "I love you" to you, you must say it sincerely: I love you too, without using other words or feeling redundant.

　　6. You must do whatever you promise her, no matter how small it is. Women all hope to have a strong shoulder to rely on and want to tell you everything about her, but if you can't even do small things well, how can she rely on you? Don't blame or be indifferent when she says something you don't agree with. How can she trust you and tell you everything that's on her mind?

　　7. If you don’t love her anymore, let her go. Don't enjoy her care and tenderness in vain, and then casually look for other girls. Only after you find her do you say let's break up, or just try to be in two different situations.

　　8. Don’t always act like a grown man in front of your friends and her friends. A woman is willing to take care of you and satisfy your man's preferences for the "three obediences and four virtues" because she loves you and dotes on you, but it does not mean that she is willing to be treated as a servant or vassal.

　　9. Don’t always stare at other women in front of her, and don’t always praise other people’s beauty. Or why you can't. A woman hopes that you love her just the way she is, and that she is the most beautiful, sexy, important, and beloved person in your heart.

 　　10. No matter how virtuous and maternal a woman is, she is still a child at heart. Don't always expect her to think about you, be considerate of your feelings, and be centered on you. She also hopes to be as willful as a child, and hopes that someone will pamper her, love her, take care of her and care for her like a child, instead of just asking for care and tolerance from her like a child.

　　11. If you have done something wrong or hurt her, you must admit it and take action to show your regret. Occasionally letting go of the so-called man's face can warm her wounded heart. Don't say you have to change it and make it again next time. She can forgive you for your occasional mistakes, but she can't tolerate making the same mistake again and again.

　　12. Don’t always yearn for three wives and four concubines, say that men in ancient times were so happy, or say that you want to have a threesome. She treats you as her only one, and hopes you treat her as her only one. If you often say this, can she safely let you go out to meet your sisters, friends, and friends? Don't always praise your confidante in front of her, and don't care more about other women than you do about her. Women are sensitive animals. It’s not that she doesn’t trust you, she just cares too much about you and hopes you can do the same.