How to make your wedding night sweeter?

　　It is good to be satisfied with your first sex life on your wedding night. However, because newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge and have just come into contact, they are easily nervous, shy and fearful and are not very satisfied. In order to make your wedding night more sweet, you should pay attention to the following points.

　　First, accept a premarital examination. According to local regulations Hospital After receiving a premarital examination, the doctor responsible for the premarital examination will patiently provide you with information about sexual life, newlywed health care, and family planning. If you don’t understand something after reading a book about sex, you can also ask the doctor for advice during the premarital examination.

　　Second, learn some sexual knowledge together before getting married. Reading some books about sexual knowledge can help newlyweds understand sexual anatomy, sexual physiology, sexual psychology, sexual behavior and other related knowledge, so that they can be well aware of it and avoid "hasty battles".

　　Third, pay attention to the balance between work and rest before marriage. Before marriage, you are busy with dowry arrangements and social activities. If you do not pay attention to the balance between work and rest, you will easily become overworked. Excessive fatigue on the wedding night will affect the function of sexual life. Therefore, you should arrange time reasonably before marriage, pay attention to rest, and avoid excessive fatigue.

　　Fourth, we must combine the sexual response cycle and control sexual behavior reasonably. The sexual response cycle can be divided into the sexual excitement period, duration period, climax period and extinction period. Sexual excitement is the preparation stage of sexual life, and the duration and climax stages are the stages of sexual intercourse. ； The waning period is the end of sexual life. The hallmarks of the excitement phase are the erection of a man's penis, an increase in secretions from the Bartholin glands in a woman's vagina, and vaginal lubrication.

　　In the preparation stage, both parties should passionately inspire and arouse each other's sexual excitement through sweet words and gentle touch. They can also stimulate the man's genitals or the woman's clitoris and breasts and other sensitive areas to promote sexual excitement. Both parties enter the sexual excitement zone and then start sexual intercourse.

　　Begins to enter the climax period, and sexual pleasure gradually appears. The sign of climax is the appearance of a man. ejaculation , the woman's vagina experienced paroxysmal contractions, the secretions increased significantly, and she was highly excited. At this time, both parties felt "emotional". During this period, both parties should not discuss matters that have nothing to do with sex, so as not to affect the mood in the bridal chamber and cause the sexual excitement to fade prematurely. The climax period is very short, disappearing in a few seconds, and immediately enters the sexual hyporesponsiveness period. During this period, the man's penis gradually softens, and the spirits of both parties slowly turn to calm. Because the man's sexual desire fades faster and the woman's sexual desire fades slower. At this time, the groom should continue to caress the bride and wait for the bride's sexual desire to completely subside and feel tired and sleepy before ending sex and resting together. The groom must pay attention to the physiological characteristics of the woman. Do not throw her aside and fall asleep alone immediately after ejaculation. This will affect the satisfaction of the woman's sexual desire.

　　In the entire sexual life process, it is worth emphasizing that both parties must cooperate with each other, be considerate of each other, and understand each other. When the bride has sexual intercourse for the first time, she may be a little shy or shy, and she may be a little nervous. Therefore, the groom should comfort her with kind words, be gentle in his behavior, and be gentle in his movements, not rough. The bride must also actively cooperate, so that sexual life can be harmonious and share joy.

　　If problems arise, you should receive psychological consultation in time. What if the groom appears during the bridal night? Impotence Or the bride's vaginismus affects the progress of the couple's life. At this time, both parties should treat it calmly and not blame each other. They can go to the hospital for sexual psychology consultation and truthfully state the relevant process to the doctor. Under the guidance of the doctor, they will generally get a timely and reasonable solution.