Hear what men think about contraception

　　 Contraception is a matter for both husband and wife. The husband, in particular, must care, love and be considerate of his wife, and cannot leave the matter of contraception entirely to the woman. for wife's sake healthy , the husband should bear more responsibilities and cannot just seek temporary convenience, causing contraceptive failure and causing unnecessary pain to his wife. However, many men today are unwilling to take responsibility for contraception. Let's listen to men's views on contraception.

　　 Do men feel responsible for contraception? The following questions are:

　　 Do you feel a responsibility to discuss birth control before sex? If you are about to have sex with a woman, will you protect her from getting pregnant? Before sex, do you ask her if she is using birth control? If she does get pregnant, who is responsible? Most men, especially younger single men, say birth control is a woman's responsibility:

　　“If she didn't know something so important, that was her business. It seems like a lot of women don't want to know, or don't even care. ”

　　“I know she does or I wouldn't go out with her. ”

　　“I won't sleep with a woman who isn't ready. ”

　　“If she felt I should know, she would tell me that anyway there was nothing I could do but use birth control or interrupt intercourse. I think contraception is a woman's business. ”

　　“No, that's hers Child . She should take care of herself. ”

　　“If a girl is over 18, she should protect herself from becoming pregnant. If she wants to have sex, she should know the consequences. If she's stupid enough to get pregnant, it's not the man's fault and she should be responsible for it. If the man falls in love with the girl, he can marry her or pay for her abortion. ”

　　“It's usually the woman who worries about getting pregnant. I'm always embarrassed to mention it because I wasn't sure we were going to have sex until I put my dick in it. If I asked her if she was on birth control pills or something, I was always afraid she would say something like, 'Why do you want to know? I'm not sleeping with you. ’”

　　“I usually don't ask about birth control before sex, I usually bring it up to see if we can reach an agreement, otherwise I assume she knows if there is a risk of pregnancy. As long as I love her or know that we have a chance to stay together and possibly get married, I have no fear of her getting pregnant. ”

　　“I've done this before, but I've found that most women don't want men to ask or worry about it. I wanted to be a gentleman and leave the questions to them. ”

　　“I admit that there have been times when I just started having sex without asking about birth control. I didn't ask at these times because I was afraid of rejection, and once I'm in a relationship with a woman, I'm always careful to protect her from getting pregnant. ”