Four signs of a man having an affair

　　Let’s use a magnifying glass to see what typical behaviors they do when they are about to cheat:

　　1. The golden cicada sheds its shell.

　　Recently, he always talks about working overtime or going on business trips. He spends less and less time at home, and the number of times he goes shopping with you is even less.

　　Although not all "workaholics" represent emotional cheating, some men will gradually disappear from normal family life before they decide to cheat. At this time, it is best for the wife to tactfully talk to her husband about his work, or to learn about his real work situation from the side, but it is best to leave him room and not to provoke him head-on.

　　2. Express dissatisfaction.

　　He starts to pick on your taste in clothing. When you tell him about the hard work at work, he always recommends that you see a psychologist: "I know you are very busy, but I can't always listen to your complaints. You bring pressure to me and the children. ”

　　On the positive side, he may want you to do better; on the negative side, he may be looking for an excuse for his cheating. It is best for the wife to find out what he is really thinking, and to respond to the questions he raises, change them if they are correct, and encourage them if they are not, so that she can become more perfect and clear-headed, and see what her husband will do next.

　　3. Desire to be taken seriously.

　　The husband began to complain that he had to compete with his children for favor. He felt that his wife spent less time with him than the children and was often left out.

　　Many wives will focus on their children after giving birth, which may lead to male Seeking attention in other people, cheating without even realizing it. The best way is to try to have a deep conversation with your husband and tell him that your children need more care now, but your love for him has not diminished.

　　4. Nothing to say.

　　Refuse to talk, even eyes will not fall on you, but when answering other people's phone calls, you appear enthusiastic and have rich topics.

　　Many men gradually lose interest in chatting with their wives after marriage. They often emphasize that "I have grown up, but you have not" and use this as a reason to refuse further dialogue.

　　At this time, the wife should be the first to break the silence and talk to him. You need to stay calm and encourage him to give you more ideas to help you grow. If he's just looking for provocation, your question will be enough to put an end to his boredom.