Doctor: Sexual function is a technical job

　　Napoleon has a familiar saying: A soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier. In fact, he also had a famous saying: “Forget it tonight, Josephine. ”Josephine was Napoleon's wife. It is said that Napoleon, who was all-powerful on the battlefield, lost his heroic nature when he got into bed. He often said "no" to his lover by hanging his exemption card.
　　
　　In the 21st century, you need to quote Napoleon’s famous saying to embolden yourself. male , it seems there are more and more.
　　
　　Recently, Relationships, a British charity that provides advice, coaching and education on relationships and sex lives, published a report stating that body healthy ,No sexual dysfunction , the number of men seeking help simply because they have lost interest in sex has increased by 40%. “In the past, men consulted us mainly for sexual dysfunction and other issues. Nowadays, men who come to me often say, 'My sexual function is fine, I just don't want to do it.' Most men with these problems are married people aged 30-50. As far as I'm concerned, this is no longer a relationship issue, but a psychosexual disorder. ”said Peter Bell, the organization's head of services.
　　
　　Carey Cooper, president of the British Association for Counseling and Psychotherapy, believes that men lose interest in sex, ultimately because of stress. “The working hours of British people have changed from the traditional nine to five to extremely overtime. This makes life very stressful, the pressure gradually accumulates, and ultimately there is no escape. ”In addition, a large-scale survey of 32,000 men and women conducted by Germany's Göttingen University found that among men and women who only have sex once a week, 36% of men and 35% of women use overtime work to make up for their lack of sex life; and among couples who have no sex life at all, 45% of men and 46% of women have "rich" hobbies and activities.
　　
　　The researchers concluded that people who lack sex have to find other outlets, sometimes through overwork, sometimes through watching TV and chatting with friends to pass the time. This forms a vicious circle, that is, the less you do, the less you do.
　　
　　Carey Cooper points out that male sexual function is a "technical job." “If men use it as much as possible at the appropriate frequency, sex will become more and more comfortable, and it will be easy to satisfy each other. But if you don't use it for a long time, sex will be difficult. Nowadays, so many men are not interested in sex, and their sexual desire is getting lower and lower, so they will reject sex life. Over time, sex becomes a dispensable thing in a couple's life. This is precisely the main reason modern marriages break up. ”