Which men are potentially abusive?

Potential abuse complex male psychology

 　　All care, affection and sex will be retained.

　　Criticizes everything his wife does.

　　Have negative comments about his wife's appearance.

　　Blaming all the problems between husband and wife on the wife.

　　Accusing his wife of being crazy - he would say: "You are imagining everything. ”

　　Said that the wife has too many desires - it is difficult for her to satisfy them.

　　Rough behavior is based on the motivation to control and dominate, and this kind of man often hides his emotions and intimate feelings deeply, making them inaccessible. Therefore, using threats to make a woman submit, feel hurt, and have her self-confidence frustrated is part of the motivation of such a man, and the result of this can seriously damage his wife's self-confidence and self-esteem.

　　These threats cause extreme fear and pain in the wife's heart, and the man not only uses this to manipulate her, but also increases her dependence on her husband. The words of a man who is mentally manipulating his wife can put double the pressure and constraints on her. No matter what she did, the man would just scold her:

　　Do whatever I tell you, or I will leave you.

　　You do whatever I tell you, or I will find another woman.

　　Whatever I tell you, you do it, or we will get divorced.

　　Whatever I tell you, you do it, otherwise I will……

　　A sadistic playboy will also say something like, “You treat me like this, no wonder I cheated on you. ”The man blamed his violent behavior entirely on his wife. Therefore, we can say that even for a woman with a normal psychological condition, living with an emotionally violent, controlling and unfaithful man will be a crazy and very dangerous thing.