Do you understand men’s sexual psychology?

　1. I like women who are confident

Many women believe that their husbands do not really care about her, and that conversations between husband and wife often focus on his interests rather than hers. However, there is an obvious fact that women mostly intend to "lower themselves" so that their husbands feel that he is the head of the family.

What women often overlook is that men with a pleasant nature usually like women who share the same qualities with them. Most men believe that women with strong self-confidence are more infectious to them, so wives should not be too modest in front of their husbands.

　　2. Suppressed emotions are often relieved through sex

As men, many people do not want to feel weak, such as fear, isolation, disappointment, etc., so they often use sex as a way to vent these inner emotions. At this time, if the wife wants more tenderness at this time, she will only be disappointed. Because although the husband can vent his anger physically, it does not eliminate the inner tension, and the wife will feel insulted and feel that she is a tool for her husband to vent his anger.

In fact, when men feel scared, disappointed, or nervous, they all want a loyal partner by their side, so sex is an effective way for them to regain confidence and feel relieved. Therefore, when a wife feels that her husband is nervous and uneasy, she should find a way to share it with him so that he can feel safe and tell you what is on his mind. In this way, the couple will feel closer, and the sex life that will follow will be more emotional and unforgettable.

　　3. Not wanting to be treated like a child

The more a wife plays the role of mother to her husband, the more her husband treats her like his own mother rather than an affectionate lover. Why should a woman treat her husband like a mother treats her children? One woman said: "Whenever my husband doesn't pay attention to me, I adopt the 'mother's way' of making him delicious food and fixing his underwear. What I really wanted was more attention and tenderness from my husband, but what I got was a lot of thanks from a sensible child who praised me for being so considerate!

By observing her mother at work as a child, a woman learns to feed her children, to give selflessly, and to pay attention to the needs of others. When she is married to a man, she will subconsciously do the same. Initially, men need this kind of care, but the more enthusiastic a woman is in playing the role of mother, the harder it is for men to repay her with love.

Therefore, a woman should not treat her husband as a child, but as a capable and trustworthy friend. There will be a lot of trouble at first, but the husband will eventually understand his wife's good intentions and treat her as a carefully selected woman again.

　　4. It’s like two different people before and after sex