Three common stages of male impotence

　　As the pace of modern life accelerates, pressure from work, family, economy, etc. is increasing. These pressures have male What's more, many people suffer from psychological imbalance, causing mental anxiety and depression. Researchers have found that depression can lead to ED, and when anxiety and depression coexist, ED is more likely to occur. Many ED (erectile dysfunction) patients seek "home remedies" privately, thus delaying diagnosis and treatment.

　　It is reported that male sex disease The disease mostly occurs in the following three stages: one year before marriage to two years after marriage; more than ten years after marriage; and menopause.

　　Stage one: menopause

　　elderly Can I also have sex? The answer is yes. However, after men enter menopause, their tempers will become irritable and anxious, and they will tend to hide at home. Some men will experience a decrease in sexual desire during menopause, and some will experience a decrease in erectile ability, thinking that they have no sexual ability.

　　After more than thirty years of ups and downs, there was a couple who had always been in a good relationship. However, their sexual life became uncoordinated. The wife found that her husband was just perfunctory every time, so she suspected that the man was having an improper relationship outside. She often checked the man's underwear and eavesdropped on the phone... In order to restore the relationship between the couple that was on the verge of breaking up, they decided to come together. Hospital Get checked. During the examination, it was found that both men and women suffered from menopausal syndrome. After treatment and strengthening communication with each other, the relationship was reconciled as before.

　　Zhang Bin pointed out that both parties should learn to understand and respect each other, and learn more about each other's natural physiological changes. Respecting your lover's interests and hobbies is the glue that enhances the relationship between husband and wife. In the process of respecting each other and adapting to each other's interests, what is gained is an increase in common language and a deepening of the couple's relationship. If a problem occurs, you should go to the hospital to see if it is an organic problem. If it is a psychological problem, the couple can use the methods mentioned above to try to create a sense of freshness and relive the romantic warmth of the past.

　　The second stage: ten years of marriage

　　“After sleeping in the same bed for 20 years, it is inevitable that there will be some 'aesthetic fatigue'. ”This is a classic sentence from the movie "Cell Phone" that resonates with many people. There is a couple who have been married for twelve years and their child is in the third grade of elementary school. In the first two years of marriage, what my husband looked forward to most every day was to get home from get off work early to be with his wife. Later, he opened his own company and began a life of leaving early and returning late. And because the woman was born Child Afterwards, I didn’t pay attention to maintenance, my body was out of shape, and I didn’t pay attention to my face. skin The care seems old-fashioned and lacks vitality. Faced with his wife who was no longer in her glory, he felt that life was boring and he had no interest in sex. Having sex more than twice a week has turned into not having sex for half a month.

　　If there is disharmony in the sexual life of a couple and there is less and less skin contact with each other, they must carefully create an atmosphere of love and communicate their feelings of love in a timely manner. Zhang Bin pointed out that couples who work in the same workplace are particularly prone to aesthetic fatigue because they face each other day and night at work and home. To overcome the boredom between couples, innovative adjustment methods must be used to enrich the sexual life of couples and regain the feeling of love. No matter how tiring the job is, men should try to help with housework, buy groceries, go shopping, go on outings, play ball, watch movies together, and relive the feeling of dating. female Also keep your image fresh. Changing the style of clothes frequently and trying to use your husband's favorite perfume will bring new feelings to each other.

　　The third stage: one year before marriage and two years after marriage

　　Before and after marriage, both men and women are in a stage of relatively high emotional fluctuations. Most of today's young couples are only children and have grown up under the doting care of their parents. Their personalities are relatively self-centered, and most of them don't think about each other. They often quarrel over trivial matters like sesame seeds and mung beans.

　　There is a young man and woman who have been in love for several years and are preparing to get married. At this time, the two are in the period of making great achievements in their careers. They are facing huge pressure at work. The two sides often rub against each other, which causes huge psychological pressure on the man. Over time, it affects the man's physiology. healthy , unable to have an erection. The woman couldn't understand and scolded the man for fooling around outside. The two eventually divorced two years after their marriage.

　　The reason is that neither party knows how to accommodate. Two people are completely independent individuals, and friction is inevitable. As a man, you should be generous and dare to say "I'm sorry" first when there is a conflict to avoid the intensification of the conflict. This will have a positive effect on your own health and the relationship of both parties. The woman should also understand the pressure the other person is under and be gentle and considerate.